myTobago – your questions, review and comment about Tobago

Just secured me a nice contract (I'm a freelance designer) which means a return to trip to Tobago could be possible next year.

We all (my partner, my 8 year old son and myself) LOVED the Island.

We're now torn. We all cannot imagine anywhere as ideal, interesting or relaxing BUT there is that natural nagging doubt we might be missing out the excitement of exploring somewhere new.

We hired a jeep last time and all we really feel we missed out on was the Argyll Falls, Pirate's Bay and having a go at Scuba diving.

Not sure what I expect by way of answers, I just wondered what others felt about return visits (especially anyone who felt like we do but returned!).

5 visits in 3 years, the only regret is that we took so long to discover Tobago!! Going back at Xmas with grown up children, their partners, their in laws and friends.
We have travelled all over the world but Tobago is the one place we have returned to again and again and hope to live there permanently one day.
Wanda

It all started as a 15th wedding anniversary treat in January 2001, just the 2 of us.

We have been back every year since ... with the kids ... and hope to return March 2005.

The point is, unlike many other holiday destinations ... little has changed in Tobago and our children renew their acquaintances each year and see how their mates have grown up ... likewise, my wife and I have got to know some really nice people there.

Unlike the people of Tobago ... so much else changes and you are guaranteed new experiences each year with the wildlife, sea life and ... of course ... the weather !!!

Why go elsewhere ??

Regards


Paul

Hello Marc,

To start with, I'm a freelance designer as well, securing enough work right now (overtime!) to be able to get back to Tobago as soon as I can.

In my case it will only be my second visit. Sorry! But after all my travels and having lived in different parts of the world, I've found that there are not so many places that evoke that feeling: I have to come back. Not just: maybe sometime again.

If you all loved the island, why not go back?

I hear you about "the nagging doubt we might be missing out the excitement of exploring somewhere new". Just follow your gut-feeling but do some internet research about other destinations that might interest you. I did, and guess what? Back to Tobago.......

Hi Marc

Good to hear from you again.

When I was younger (back in the 60s-80s) I chased around the world light a blue-arsed bluebottle frantically seeking out all the 'in' places. (I've still got that genuine Afghan coat somewhere in the loft!)

Eventually I woke up to the realisation that it matters not one jot. You're never there long enough to REALLY know a place and there's always somewhere else just around the corner that you miss. On top of that, everywhere is changing, so the fact that you visited a place years ago is probably irrelevant anyway. So, I slowed down.

Now, I travel very differently. I NEVER visit every possible sightseeing spot or recommended restaurant when at a new destination. If I like a place, I like to know that there are still places left to explore when I go back. Although I accept that this site contradicts my argument, I always feel that you should never over-research a holiday. Go and let it take you by surprise. Have the fun of finding places for yourself rather than simply following in the footsteps of all the other tourists who have read the same guide book (or myTobago). Go where your heart tells you – not where you feel you “ought” to go or “might” like to visit. When your heart no longer gives you the same message, move on.

Traveling back to Tobago in February for my 4th visit. I've been to other Caribbean destinations -- St. John, St. Thomas, Virgin Gorda, Tortola, Bermuda -- as well as Hawaii, and nothing yet compares to Tobago. What makes it unique for me is the people. It's the only place I've traveled where I feel like people let you into their lives and are happy to show you their home land. Plus it is relatively safe, non-commerical, and by far the most inexpensive place I've visited. Each time I visit, I discover something new, whether it be a different place to snorkle, or a new restaurant. And the pace gets slower, because I'm not in such a rush to go anywhere. Of course, I'm still open to adventure in other places. Anyone been to Grenada? That's the next place I'd like to visit....and pair with a week in Tobago!

Go back Marc,you know it's good for you!!!!!!!
David

Not returning isn't an option! Tobago is my favourite place on the planet. When you find paradise....why keep looking?? I can't wait to be there again!

Bryn

Very compelling!

I have to say having my mac show me my Tobago pics as a screen saver is making it all the more appealing! In the main, seeing the joy on everyone's face.

I think what appealed to me the most about the Island was the lack of exploitation (re tourism) and the lack of crowds. The busiest beach we visited was Englishman's Bay with a massive 24 revellers on it.

I was slightly taken aback by the friendliness if that makes sense, I am born and bred South London, we don't really trust friendliness here

Since Tobago I have done 3 days in Istanbul (man that place is crazy!) and will be booking 2 nights in Stockholm for November (anniversary getaway).

I have the urge to explore elsewhere but I think that'll be suited to weekends etc. I think I'd be judging wherever else I visit against Tobago and as you all testify to here, maybe it really is unbeatable.

I hear what Steve says, I think I devoured Tobago a bit too much before - I was just worried I'd miss something.

My girlfriend says she found the first week there a bit stressful, ie whilst she adjusted, so maybe a familiar return would mean instant chilling this time.

Thanks for the responses, what a nice bunch hang out on Steve's website!